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    A Year Without My Mom: Gemma Dolores Aguayo

    Published: Oct 4, 2021 by Gemma · This post may contain affiliate links.

    A Year Without My Mom: Gemma Dolores Aguayo, is a difficult post to share, but this blog has always been a way to honor my parents and I want to continue to tell her story, to share how remarkable she was, and keep her memory alive.

    My mom

    A Year Without My Mom: Gemma Dolores Aguayo

    It has been a year since I lost my mom to cancer. A year since the last time I saw her beautiful face, touched her soft hands, and kissed her gentle cheeks.

    I haven't said anything about it here. It made me feel that if I didn't reveal these news then maybe it really wasn't real. I mean, friends, family, people close they know about it, of course they do.

    But, in this world of Everyday Latina that I created, a blog that I dedicated to my mom and my dad, a place where I share my upbringing, my mom's stories, her recipes, the impact she had on my life. . .it just felt as though I could keep her alive a little bit longer if I didn't say anything.

    Lately though, I have started to realize that I want to continue to tell her story. I began this blog to document and celebrate my culture, my family, everything that my mom and my dad taught me about food, about tradition, about my heritage. And, as hard as it is to stomach and to accept, my mom's fight against cancer and her death are a part of her story.

    In the last year it has become increasingly difficult for me to write new blog posts and share her recipes. I haven't known how to address the fact that she is no longer here.  It has been heartbreaking to know that I no longer have her to call and ask about the background of a recipe, or how she learned how to make it, or simply something special about it.

    Now I have to rely on my own memories, or her old notebooks in which she so carefully handwrote her recipes in. I also turn to the people who loved her, my dad, my sister, my brother, my aunt, my uncle, my cousins, to regale me with anecdotes about my mom that they keep in their hearts.

    And so...

    I reveal these news today, this part of my life that I still can't understand with a hope that I can continue keeping her memory alive. That anyone who reads my blog will know what a truly remarkable person my mom was. That you will find comfort and joy in her recipes, and be able to feel how much I loved her.

    In this year without my mom, I have realized I want to continue to make her proud, to honor her, and celebrate her.  And I hope that one day, this will also serve as a record for my own kids. That through my writing, my three children will remember their "Ababu" and cherish the memories, the stories, the recipes, and the legacy that she left us.

    My mom and I

    Check out the following posts for some of the recipes that I learned from my mom. In the introduction to these posts you will also find some of the stories behind these recipes that feature my mom.

    • Mexican Meatball Soup (Caldo de Albóndigas)
    • Arroz Rojo (Mexican Red Rice)
    • Frijoles Charros (Mexican Charro Beans)
    • Everyday Shredded Pork and Avocado Burritos
    • Albóndigas in Chipotle Sauce
    • Cheesy Calabacitas con Elote (Zucchini and Corn Soup)

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    About Gemma

    Gemma is the recipe developer, writer and food photographer behind Everyday Latina. Gemma was born in Mexico, but has spent the majority of her life in the United States. She has been sharing recipes since 2018 with an emphasis on her parents' traditional Mexican cuisine and a focus on clean, healthy ingredients. Her goal is to build a community of people who appreciate family, food and culture and, who like her, want to live a healthy, happy everyday life.

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    1. Berik

      October 12, 2021 at 11:57 am

      Sending you lots of hugs friend

      Reply
      • everydaylatina

        October 12, 2021 at 9:17 pm

        Thank you, I truly appreciate it.

        Reply
    2. Amy

      October 05, 2021 at 7:01 am

      What an incredible daughter you are. There is no doubt that your mom is looking down upon you, smiling, as she sees her tenacious daughter continuing her legacy of love, tradition, and delicious foods.

      Reply
      • everydaylatina

        October 14, 2021 at 12:56 am

        Thank you Amy, you always have such kind words.

        Reply
    3. Becky Swan

      October 04, 2021 at 9:20 pm

      I love your Instagram. I have cooked so many things that you have posted on Instagram. Your recipes are so easy to follow and I love how you include your family in your posts.
      My heart breaks for you in the loss of your Mom. I no longer have my Mother so I know your hurt.
      However, I too share so many memories of my Mom. What if we didn’t have those wonderful memories ? Wouldn’t it be sad ? Wouldn’t you ask yourself would of, could of , should of ??? How awesome is it you have no regrets. You were able to share all your love and compassion for things in life with your precious Mother. She taught you how to be a mom, a wife, a friend and how to share your passion for cooking and life with others.
      I want you to know I’m a recipient of your mother’s compassion for cooking and appreciation of good home cooking. Thank you for sharing her knowledge and recipes with me. I have prepared so many recipes of yours for my family. I have told them about your Instagram . I had to admit it wasn’t my recipe 😜
      There are SO many people out there that have no memories of their loved ones and their hearts are heavy with regrets. How sad…… they will never get over that hurt. You don’t have those, what a blessing.
      I look forward to your posts and I’m going to pray for you during this difficult time. It’s ok to grieve. It’s ok to express your missing your mom. That’s what sisters in Christ are for. We are there to lift you up during times like these. God is so good and he knows your hurt. Lean upon him for direction and peace.

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      • everydaylatina

        October 11, 2021 at 8:52 pm

        Becky, I cannot express just how much your comment means to me. Your words have blessed me. You are so right, I treasure the memories and everything my mom imparted in me. She taught me so much about life and being a mom and I just hope I can be even half the mother she was. Thank you for cooking our recipes and thank you for your support. God bless you.

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